Die My Love 2025 Movie Review
‘Die My Love’ is an emotionally charged tale that follows a woman’s slow descent into postpartum psychosis. Lawrence plays Grace, a new mother and writer, while Robert Pattinson co-stars as Jackson, Grace’s partner. The movie is based on Ariana Harwicz’s novel of the same name.
As well as being unconventional, this movie is a slow burn. There are long periods of tedium, punctuated by moments of deep intensity that literally shock the viewer into a sudden state of alertness. This is part of what makes ‘Die My Love’ work so well. I say this because there are times where, as a viewer, you almost get lulled into a false sense of security. But before you can get too comfortable, the plot takes an unexpected turn, and you quickly become engaged with the story again. Black humour is also used selectively to break the tension, which works well.
The overall mood of the film is one of mystery and unease. Being set in rural Montana adds to the mystery. A lot of the scenes occur in the family home Grace and Jackson share. That the house is in the middle of nowhere adds to Grace’s sense of isolation, which only serves to compound her psychosis. Having the bulk of the scenes in the family home creates a sense of immediacy and also provides a solid foundation for the story. It also provides context for other scenes in the film.
One thing I liked about the story is that sometimes you aren’t always sure what’s real and what’s only happening in Grace’s mind. This added an element of mystery that I found compelling. And while it made the plot complicated, it was authentic. Madness is not linear, so it makes sense for the film to portray madness in a non-linear fashion.
Thanks to the direction of Lynne Ramsey, the viewer gets a harrowing window into what it’s like to experience postpartum psychosis. The editing has also been done well too. With a plot that jumps around quite a bit, the different elements of the story are weaved together skilfully.
Lawrence plays her role with nuance and a raw intensity. One minute she is glassy eyed and looking off into nowhere. The next she is apparently lucid and calm, or is otherwise oblivious to her surroundings and the chaos and confusion for which she is responsible.
Pattinson delivers a compelling performance as a partner doing his best to make what he has with Grace and their child work.
Together, Pattinson’s and Lawrence’s performances combine to highlight the inner workings of a relationship that, while not loveless, is truly dysfunctional.
There’s a great supporting cast too. Sissy Spacek plays the role of Jackson’s Mum, Pam. While Pam appears well intentioned, ultimately, she isn’t really sure what to do. Then there is Nick Nolte who plays Harry. Nolte does well in his nuanced portrayal of an old man who, despite his confusion, still has feelings he wants to express.
The film also features a really good soundtrack with a wide variety of music, including some heavy rock and industrial tunes. There are also some more upbeat tracks like ‘Hey Mickey’, which adds a moment of humour. Also in the mix are some acoustic numbers. The heavy numbers meld perfectly with the chaotic events occurring on screen, while the acoustic songs help to slow the pace. They also bring an element of melancholy to the story.
The cinematography has been done well too, with several scenes taking place at night, as well as others that occur at low light. This helps to create the film’s dark mood and also heightens the sense of loneliness Grace is experiencing. There are also some great scenes shot in a field of tall grass that, while elegantly simple, also show the emotions Grace and Jackson are going through.
Another thing I really liked about the film was its use of symbolism to explore the theme of letting go of one’s past. That this theme is communicated symbolically through visual effects – rather than through dialogue – is much more powerful. It also provides the story with a lot more depth.
I also liked the character development that came through in Pattinson’s and Lawrence’s performances. Despite many difficult situations and some really intense moments their characters share, I felt a degree of empathy for both of them.
Part dark psychological thriller, part black comedy, ‘Die My Love’ is a unique story that in some ways is elegantly simple, yet also uniquely complex. Pattinson and Lawrence deliver stellar performances, with Pattinson doing a fantastic job of portraying a frustrated partner who, despite everything, still cares about his family.
Then there is Lawrence, who continues to showcase her diverse range. She can do it all. From playing characters like the ballerina turned spy in ‘Red Sparrow’, to a down on her luck uber driver struggling to pay her property taxes in ‘No Hard Feelings’, Lawrence demonstrates her ability to work across genres with great skill. She was also one of the producers on this film, so is clearly multi-talented.
